Attitudes of Maturity

•      He is tolerant; the immature cannot stand those who do not believe as he does, or who have different clothes or eat strange foods.
•      He accepts responsibilities; even seeks them.
•      He thinks for himself; he does not follow fads or buy on impulse.
•      He is calm - if the other fellow gets mad and wants to argue he smooth things only.
•      His work is motivated by a long range plan not by whims or  the desires of each passing week.
•      He saves to buy a home and doesn't use earnings for weekly payments on jewelry or a few coat.
•      More interested in the future than in the past.
•      Does not show off to booster self confidence, he is not seeking the limelight
•      He can say "No" to himself and make it stick.
•      Understanding and does not nurse grudges or try to get even.
•      Tackles unpleasant task without self pity, without feeling he is being  picked on.
•      If he is picked it doesn't bother him.
•      Can take orders without  becoming obstinate
•      Make up his mind decisively without dilly dallying, but not as an impulsive child
•      He has close friend of both sexes and keeps his mind and talk free from vulgarity.
•      His friendships are long lasting
•      He admits his shortcomings,  but at the same time recognizes his strength without being        vain over them.
•      He is not alibi artist.
•      He can take criticism and profit from it without sulking or hitting back.
•      He is weaned from dependence on his parents. He honors them, but runs his own life.