Thursday, August 1, 2013

HOW TO SAY I LOVE YOU?

   

Communication is a two way process their is sender and receiver, their is speaking and listening, reading  and writing.
    Human being is said the highest form of animal because he can communicate in various forms and language. Relationship will restore if their is good communication. Be humble enough to listen and when its your time to speak, then speak. It's always give and take. Give your listening heart and you will receive listening heart also. Like the golden rule if you want to be heard listen first so when its your time to speak they will listen. If you want to be heard be sensitive enough that others want also to be heard. We can't  hear each other because we want to shout all what we need to say. We forget the most important which is listening because when you truly listen you will understand what the other party want to say and what he really meant to say.
     I speak to foreign language sometimes I couldn't understand their language because of the accent and other differences that's the time I used my heart to listen to what he really meant to say. I look at his eyes, the gestures of his hands, the movement  of his body. Yes even though I couldn't understand his foreign language I understand the core of his heart  and that's the time I'm ready to speak and say you captured my heart. But then it's a continuous process you have to asked questions, don't assume till you hear it from the bottom of his heart.
     Take note be humble enough to admit your mistakes but its not enough just to admit it , repent and be the best new you.