Yes I'm single, independent and carefree. People and friends around pressured me with the words "you gonna marry now" ,or else you will suffer when you give birth at an old age or you will not bear a child anymore."
Is it the only purpose of being a single woman to marry and become a mother? If I'd obey them at young age I got married. Yes sometimes I feel alone and lonely but every time I convert this loneliness and where it came from I became productive. My dear friends being single, you can do lot of things because you are free like a bird in the wild.
Majority of single ladies dream to walk in an isle where the red carpet lies and lovely petals of flower scattered by the little angels. A beautiful bride wear a long bridal gown. The bride is the center of attraction at that moment. A scene to behold. Its a drama , a story that since I was young I heard many times from different tongues. As a child I believe in all these fantasies till I became adult. I saw the real drama of my close friends and relatives. Yes to marry is everyone's dream ; but what's important is after that scene to behold. How you manage to say "till death do us part". You can tell it easily to each other when you are on that bed of roses. But what if you are on the thorns of roses that makes you in pain and bitter will you still stand on that promise?
To get married you have a mission, vision not only on the day of that beautiful scene but forever. You will start a family and you will be responsible for the outcome of your children. It's in your hands what your children will become. Will you duplicate a successful children like you or a failure? Its how you manage. It's not a hereditary treasure that you can easily give with just a piece of paper or verbal compromise. But it's like planting a seed till it become a huge tree. And your love to each other will last even the petals fade and fall on its trunk.
Single ladies out there so you're looking for a lifetime partner are you ready? Your answer must involve all aspect not only based on emotions. Emotions is like weather that will change anytime. Emotionally, you will say yes, how about other areas; Financially, mentally, spiritually, morally, physically are you ready?
So if the answer is yes to all those aspect then you're really ready. The second question is you're looking for a partner but do you do your part? Do you go for a date? Friendly date is a must. Some of my single friends said "I want to get married but my gosh I never go on a date!
What is a date? An engagement to go out socially with another person, often out of romantic interest? A date is a friendly gathering of two individuals, but it doesn't mean that you will be on exclusive date. Go as many friendly dates till one of those acquaintance and friend proposed with you.
For single men out there so you're looking for a lifetime partner. And you're ready in all aspect of your life. But do you court a lady? You will say well I court many times and been busted many times. Or simply you don't want to try because you are afraid of rejection. Put this in mind a real man couldn't be destructed by rejection because you are a man who can stand against all odds.
So you're ready? Initiate a date, there is no harm in trying. What do you want a girl who will court you? Its gonna be easy for you but a real man will climb the tallest mountain to get the prize. Than being a lazy man waiting for the fruit to fall on its mouth.
Friendly reminder love must start within you, till you are ready to share it. Because when you feel incomplete and you will look it outside you will be frustrated all must start within you.
Let's build a happy and responsible Single for Christ all around the world.
